Mature ways to breakup in a relationship

I understand the word "Breakup" doesn't sound good but Sometimes you have to breakup to become a better person. It can be very hard but there are reasons why you have to.
In the beginning, it goes very exciting and it feels awesome to see that he or she feels the same way.

When you breakup, you don't want to look ten years back and asking yourself why you broke up. The worst pain is to end up with the wrong person by your own hands (You let someone go and later settled with the wrong person). I've come across ladies who tell me they thought they have bad taste in men but I'd say the most important thing is when you decide you want to end a relationship, think it through and be sure about it before taking that step.

There are tons of reasons why people breakup . I've observed that Growing apart is one of the major reasons. When you find out that your interests, ideas,

and feelings are not really the same like when you two first met. Another reason is when you change your mind or feeling about your partner and breakup can come in when trust is completely shattered.

I personally believe it is best to avoid breakup when you are in an emotional mindset. Though it is important to be informed by our emotions, we shouldn't let them lead our decision making process. It is wise to stay calm, remain open and not rush into a decision when you are feeling emotional. When you break up with an emotional mindset, you will do nothing but make a mess out of it. If you want to breakup, do it without regrets. Just take some time and get some space, then you can now respond to what happened.

What is next after Breakup?

This is a very good question and I believe a lot of people out there need to cogitate about the next move after breakup. Well, This is where Self-awareness comes in.

After breakup, it is very important to take your time and reflect on your personality and have a deep thought about who you are. It's not a crazy thing to do. It's advisable to think or rethink about what you are passionate about, get really busy doing different things and forget about going into a new relationship just yet. take your time to reconstruct yourself. Forget about relationship and focus on you and basically improving yourself. You need to ask yourself questions, get in touch with your personality. I believe after considering these things, you should know the next move and who you should be spending your life with in the future.

If you found this post useful and have any experience you want to share, feel free to comment and let's talk!

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